Chapter
4:
Other
Themes in Your Relationship
Arnold's Sun in
Maria's 4th house:
Arnold is able to confide
in Maria, and your relationship is a very personal, intimate one.
Maria brings out Arnold's softer side. You are drawn to live together
and share a home together.
Maria's Sun in
Arnold's 5th house:
Maria encourages Arnold's
creative talents, and both of you are inspired to undertake joint
creative projects. If you share a similar artistic or creative
interest, then you certainly will work together and inspire each
other tremendously along creative lines. You really enjoy each
other's company and love to play games together.
Arnold's Moon in
Maria's 8th house:
As your relationship
develops, a powerfully emotional bonding develops. Your feelings for
each other are intense and can also be rather complex. Jealousy is
possible and if things go wrong, you can hate each other with the
same intensity that you once loved each other. If you marry or pool
your resources but later separate from each other, you will have an
extremely difficult time disentangling your mutually owned property,
and you are likely to argue intensely over proper division of your
joint assets.
Maria's Moon in
Arnold's 2nd house:
Situations arise that
make it natural for Maria to provide material and emotional support
for Arnold. By circumstances, Maria becomes a benefactor to Arnold,
and this support engenders deeps feelings of love and appreciation
for each other.
Arnold's Mercury in
Maria's 3rd house:
The two of you love to
chat, and often it requires effort for the two of you to be together
without talking, even if there is little to discuss. Try to avoid the
tendency to gossip with each other.
Maria's Mercury in
Arnold's 4th house:
Maria loves to discuss
very personal issues with Arnold, which promotes a very close, inner
tie between you.
Arnold's Venus in
Maria's 3rd house:
Your conversations are
generally pleasant and enjoyable. You argue with each other much less
than you do with other people.
Maria's Venus in
Arnold's 5th house:
Dancing, moonlit nights,
and other romantic activities are likely to be a very important part
of this relationship. There is a fresh, joyous quality to the love
you share.
Arnold's Mars in
Maria's 1st house:
Arnold comes on strong,
almost aggressively to Maria, and this relationship is a lively,
dynamic one. Arnold spurs Maria to do more and be more. Maria may
feel inspired by Arnold, but may also feel that Arnold is too pushy.
Maria's Mars in
Arnold's 4th house:
For better or worse,
Maria gets under Arnold's skin. Maria may infuriate, excite, inspire,
and sexually arouse Arnold, perhaps even all of these at the same
time! If you live together, Maria will do much to maintain the home,
but both of you must be careful to accommodate your partner's tastes
and concerns and try not to overpower your partner, especially when
domestic issues are involved.
Arnold's Jupiter in
Maria's 6th house:
Arnold loves to be of
practical service and help to Maria, though possibly reluctant to
help out others. Arnold takes a great interest in Maria's health and
overall well-being, and helps take care of day-to-day chores.
Maria's Jupiter in
Arnold's 3rd house:
Maria loves talking with
Arnold, and, in fact, is prone to gossip a good deal with Arnold.
Communication is open and uninhibited between you and you find that
you are able to discuss a wide variety of topics openly and freely
with each other. Your conversations tend to go off in many directions
with lots of digressions, and it is sometimes difficult for the two
of you to stay focused on a single topic.
Arnold's Saturn in
Maria's 4th house:
If your relationship is a
long-term one and you live together, you can expect that this
relationship will bring both of you face to face with personal habits
of your own that must be improved, or at least adapted to the tastes
of your partner. Issues such as tidiness and neatness at home, use of
abusive or foul language, choice of foods, tastes in music and decor,
approaches towards raising children, etc. come to the fore. At times
you will come to an impasse and feel that you cannot come to an
agreement on these issues. Maria, in particular, may become very
frustrated by some of Arnold's deeply ingrained, personal habits. If
your ethnic backgrounds or upbringings are very different, this
problem can be severe. If both of you can be tolerant, open-minded,
accepting of shortcomings in your mate, and willing to learn new
attitudes, you can turn potentially frustrating situations into
opportunities to mature and grow emotionally.
Maria's Saturn in
Arnold's 5th house:
This relationship causes
Arnold to question personal skills and competence a great deal. Maria
feels that Arnold is capable of so much more, and is inclined to feel
that Arnold is wasting valuable talent. Maria would like to see
Arnold be more serious and less superficial in creative work. Over
time, Maria is likely to nag Arnold to concentrate more on expressing
unused personal talents. Rather than inspire Arnold to do more, this
may only serve to make Arnold feel inadequate and dissatisfied with
any accomplishments or progress made. With care and consideration,
Maria can, indeed, spur Arnold on to greater self-mastery and
development, but the process is more delicate than Maria may at first
realize. Great care - and unconditional love - is needed on Maria's
part to achieve this.
Arnold's Uranus in
Maria's 2nd house:
Arnold encourages Maria
to use more creative, unusual methods for investing, developing
financial stability and security. Arnold may, for example, encourage
Maria to invest in a new enterprise that presents big opportunities
but is also risky.
Maria's Uranus in
Arnold's 1st house:
Arnold's more unusual,
creative side comes out in this relationship, and Arnold feels more
spontaneous and exuberant with Maria than with most other people.
Consequently, there is a lively feeling to your relationship, but if
Maria is a rather unstable person, then Arnold may feel that there is
not enough stability and reliability in the relationship.
Arnold's Neptune in
Maria's 6th house:
Maria is often
disappointed in the way that Arnold handles problems and performs
various chores and tasks. Maria is likely to feel that Arnold is
careless or sloppy. You approach many tasks in a very different
manner from each other. This is not likely to create any serious
problems, and can even add some interesting variety to your lives.
Maria's Neptune in
Arnold's 4th house:
There is a good deal of
fantasy, imagination, and playfulness in your relationship. Maria, in
particular, sparks Arnold's imagination and intuition. One way this
quality is likely to express itself is in the style of your home,
which is likely to be decorated and arranged in a very imaginative way.
Arnold's Pluto in
Maria's 4th house:
A lot of powerful
emotions come to the surface in this relationship. Your attachment to
each other can be very intense, and the possibility of arousing
jealousy or hurt feelings is very strong. Unfortunately, both of you
may let the feelings boil for quite a long time before expressing
them. You need to be honest and open with each other because
otherwise a complex knot of feelings can develop between you,
developing into a love-hate relationship.
Maria's Pluto in
Arnold's 3rd house:
Maria sometimes expresses
ideas and opinions in a very forceful manner to Arnold, who inspires
Maria to take a strong stand on issues, but Arnold may feel that
Maria is too narrow-minded at times. The two of you can work well
together in areas that require concentration or bold presentations
such as research, marketing, etc.
Arnold's Sun Conjunct
Maria's Uranus:
You inspire each other to
try new things, experiment, and investigate alternatives. You may
have met each other, for example, during a time period when both of
you were breaking free from traditional values and exploring new
possibilities. There is a lot of excitement and spontaneity in your
relationship. The two of you may find it difficult to settle down
into a stable life style - there will always be surprises and
unexpected turns in your relationship. You encounter lots of new
ideas, unusual people, adventure, and exciting times together. You
both enjoy a good measure of freedom and independence in this
relationship, but either of you may wish that there was more
commitment, devotion, seriousness, warmth, and closeness.
Maria's Sun Conjunct
Arnold's Jupiter:
There is a tremendous
amount of good will, optimism, and enthusiasm in your relationship.
Arnold draws out Maria's optimism and self-confidence and is able to
assist Maria in discovering new possibilities and avenues for growth.
A shared vision, philosophy, or goal for the future gives vitality to
your relationship.
Arnold's Sun Trine
Maria's Venus:
Yours is a congenial and
enjoyable relationship, for you both like, love, and appreciate one
another, and make special efforts to please one another. You also
share a similarity in tastes and enjoyment of leisure activities and pleasures.
Maria's Sun Trine
Arnold's Mercury:
The mental rapport that
you two share is a big reason why you enjoy each other's company and
are good friends. Communication is open and harmonious. You work
together very well on practical affairs, daily chores,
problem-solving, and business activities.
Arnold's Asc. Square
Maria's Mars:
The two of you frequently
approach work and goals in very different ways, and consequently you
are inclined to step on each other's toes. Arnold may feel that Maria
is pushy or insensitive to all of the issues and concerns that are
involved in a situation. You can work together very effectively, but
it requires you to allow each other the freedom to approach problems
in a very different way than you would. Very often you can accomplish
more by working separately from each other on different aspects of a
problem rather than attempting to work jointly.
Arnold's Asc. Trine
Maria's Saturn:
Maria is a stabilizing
force in Arnold's life, and offers steady, quiet support when Arnold
is in need. Maria may help Arnold build a firm foundation and
long-term security for Arnold's life. It is easy for you to be
committed to one another, both as friends and as lovers.
Maria's Moon Square
Arnold's Jupiter:
You enjoy joking and
kidding each other, and you spark each other's sense of humor. In
fact, it is sometimes difficult to be serious with each other; the
tendency to be light-hearted and jovial is too irresistible. Also,
you are very supportive and encouraging to each other, but you tend
to be overly optimistic about each other and make promises that you
cannot fulfill. You encourage each other to be extravagant, sometimes
too much so.
Arnold's Moon Trine
Maria's Jupiter:
A pleasant, harmonious
tone pervades your relationship. This quality is so natural to your
association that it is easy to take it for granted. You feel very at
home and comfortable with each other. You put each other in a good
mood, and your domestic life tends to be very harmonious. You may
bring out a lazy, indolent, self-satisfied side in one another.
Arnold's Mercury Trine
Maria's Saturn:
You work together well on
practical problems. You help each other refine and clarify your
ideas, and help "edit" each other's work. Consequently you
make a very effective team in business affairs, important or exacting
work, and in solving daily problems.
Maria's Mercury Trine
Arnold's Uranus:
Your conversations are
spirited and often exhilarating. You spark each other to view
situations in a new light and you inspire creative, original,
inventive ideas. This relationship inspires creativity and
originality, and a fresh attitude towards life - and you should share
a very interesting life together.
Arnold's Venus Trine
Maria's Venus:
There is a beautiful flow
of love between the two of you, and you are able to both give and
receive affection, appreciation, and tenderness in this relationship.
You enjoy the same pleasures and find it easy and natural to do those
things that really please and satisfy your partner. Your tastes in
aesthetics is also very compatible.
Arnold's Venus Trine
Maria's Saturn:
There is a great deal of
mutual trustworthiness, reliability, and responsibility in this
relationship that makes you both feel very secure with each other.
You can count on each other, and you both take the relationship
seriously. You willingly make sacrifices for each other, and a deep
love between you develops over time. You will assist each other a
great deal over the years. This is likely to be a deep, meaningful,
lasting relationship.
Arnold's Mars Trine
Maria's Mars:
You are able to
coordinate your efforts and work together very well on practical
tasks. You make an excellent working team. There is a warm,
stimulating, energizing quality between you, and you generate a lot
of steam for anything you undertake together. You also discover your
physical drives and desires are very much in sync.
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